Be Happy

        Some of you may know that I am a father of one child at the moment. I have a daughter that is 15 months and I often like to think that it is her I am teaching, but I realize that it is her that teaches me. Her smile can turn my doubts into courage. She has gotten into the stage of repeating words and is now saying one that really lights up my life. Happy. Thats her new word among others but this one stands out because she understands what it means. She can use this word and transform my mood into a positive one if I have doubts. I ask that we all take a lesson from this little lady and be happy even during our struggles and trials. Lets us grow patient and strong and remain happy throughout all of our situations. Watch the video and tell me what you thing by commenting below. Feel free to share the message. BE HAPPY !

Someone Is Begging For The Opportunity You Have

         Right now somebody is lying in a hospital bed begging and praying to have the opportunity you have right now. And you rather sit around and play a video game, drink your life away, work a job just hard enough to not get fired, make every excuse you can to not do more. You are wasting your life. If you seem to have forgotten we only get one shot, only one life to live. Are you gonna sit around and waste it? Get up and get out and do something with yourself, there is much more to life than that laziness. Go and do what is hard so your life will be easy, because doing what is easy makes life hard. There is more potential in you than what you see, wake up and snap into reality. Live a full life and die empty, leave no goals behind. You can do this but it takes you to do it. It takes determination and guts, dedication and ambition. Force yourself to go against the thoughts of procrastination and laziness. Don't pay attention to the negative talkers surrounding you and also the negative thoughts within. Drown them out with your positive thoughts and actions. Be the best version of yourself and never look back, break the rearview mirror from your life. 
         May your day be positive and productive, with continuous progression and may peace find you. 

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Excuses don't exist.

Never Make excuses, because there are none.

A Message to the Youth

      A message to the youth(kids and teens). PLEASE SHARE !!!!!!!!! 

You are more than what you think you are. You may be going through moments of confusion but only you have the answers to what your destiny holds. This doesn't mean you shouldn't respect what your elders say or their advice. But I do say that you are not obligated to follow their beliefs or ways. You have your own mind and own free choice. Learn from their mistakes, and know that you are young and will make mistakes of your own, but the key is to learn from them. Don't spread hate, and learn to see how it is spread throughout the world every second. Beware of those that push religion and force beliefs onto you, remember you have the freedom to choose keep an open mind. If it teaches hate it is false religion anyway. Also when those into politics push their opinions do not listen. There will be hate pushed onto you from all angles, they want you to choose democrat or republican, christian or muslim, white or black. Remember don't listen, you have a free mind. Don't listen to their promotion of hate follow your heart. Love each and all as equal. Never give up though you will fail often never quit because after failing so much you will soon perfect what you seek to do. BE YOURSELF. NO ONES OPINION IS YOUR REALITY. SEEK PEACE AND LOVE.

Focus and Forget

       

 

       We deal with so much negative energy in our daily life, that at times it seems unbearable. To fight this energy, work on being calm and giving more energy to those that love us and actually do care. Those that try to bring you down only care about your failure and keeping you low. Rise above that with positive energy. Cut off all negative ties. Space yourself from them and keep it positive. When we focus on those who really do care, our happiness will grow because we feel loved. Love is the greatest force there is and is capable of creating the biggest changes in the world. As for those who don't care about your joy and only want you miserable, cut them off because no one needs toxic people in their lives. A person can be in your presence and so toxic that it will rub off on you. Be careful around toxic people and remain mindful of your goals to reach your greatness. Never let anyone bring you down, remain firm in your plan with a strong mind.

        There is a project I would like for you all to try. I ask that you seek out like-minded people and build a support group, weather it be just a conference call or a group text system and help build each others confidence and drive for success. Provide words of encouragement to each other and seek understanding on issues that are hard for you to comprehend and maybe another member of your support group can help.            

         The benefits of this project is that it will keep you on your feet and alive with the drive for success. When another person tells you that YOU CAN do something it helps fight the many negatives you hear in your daily life and there are many of them but this project will keep your mind focused on the positive. Where the mind continues to focus the body will follow. Keep your energy on the positive and prepare to reap the benefits.

         May your day be positive and productive, with continuous progression and may peace find you.

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Silence is Power

       

        Beware of whom you give your energy to. Some are negative on purpose just to drain your positive energy. Retain your energy by not saying a word. Save your words and breath to speak positive and greatness upon this world. Speak blessings into your life and watch them come to pass. You will be faced with trials and tribulations throughout life and must learn to defeat them. There will be things that you hear that you do not agree with and may want to speak your opinion but sometimes its just not worth it. Save that energy and breath for something positive and constructive. Save your words for positive speaking and try your hardest to never use them for negative talk. What you speak about will be what you think about and what you think about will be what comes to pass, so always keep it positive.

         There is power in silence and with practice you will learn that this is true. I challenge you to practice remaining silent to the toxic people and giving them the silent treatment when they try to infect you with their poisonous words and negativity. This exercise will seem to hurt at first because you will want to say something really bad but you must remain strong and focus on keeping your mind peaceful. The next time you are in a situation where the conversation is getting sour, politely tell the other people you have to be on your way and leave the scene with not another word said. Remember, save that energy and let it motivate you to do better.

         May your day be positive and productive, with continuous progression and may peace find you. 

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Do what you can with what you have.

      

         People will doubt you and hope you fail. They will see you down and in need of help and will abandon you. Success is a lonely road, but that's no reason to quit. Never quit on your dreams and goals. Make a step towards your goals each and every day. Don't be bothered with those who wanna see you fail keep pushing for your greatness. Keep your eyes on the reward at the end of the road and remember when you reach that end it still is not the end but only an opportunity for a new beginning. You may not have much at the moment but that doesn't mean you can do much. You are a powerful being and very capable of doing great things in this world. You have the power to change this whole world, yes just you. It only takes one person to change the world. 
         You feel trapped in your current situations and struggles? That feeling too can be used to light a fire within to seek your greatness. Use every thing you have, any tools available and fight your way to success. You have to do what you can with what you have and once you gain more tools, more knowledge and understanding add to what you have and become even greater. You have to go at your problems and struggles 

like a giant. Any obstacle you face, look at yourself as a giant and step right over it. Giving up should never be an option.

         Take a deep look within and visualize where you want to be and focus on it daily. Quit dwelling on where you are now, its not gonna get you nowhere. Focus on the end result and it will find you quickly. 

         May your day be positive and productive, with continuous progression and may peace find you. 

© Michael Shirley and Self Constructed, 2015. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this site’s author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to Michael Shirley and Self Constructed with appropriate and specific direction to the original content. ☥