Focus and Forget

       

 

       We deal with so much negative energy in our daily life, that at times it seems unbearable. To fight this energy, work on being calm and giving more energy to those that love us and actually do care. Those that try to bring you down only care about your failure and keeping you low. Rise above that with positive energy. Cut off all negative ties. Space yourself from them and keep it positive. When we focus on those who really do care, our happiness will grow because we feel loved. Love is the greatest force there is and is capable of creating the biggest changes in the world. As for those who don't care about your joy and only want you miserable, cut them off because no one needs toxic people in their lives. A person can be in your presence and so toxic that it will rub off on you. Be careful around toxic people and remain mindful of your goals to reach your greatness. Never let anyone bring you down, remain firm in your plan with a strong mind.

        There is a project I would like for you all to try. I ask that you seek out like-minded people and build a support group, weather it be just a conference call or a group text system and help build each others confidence and drive for success. Provide words of encouragement to each other and seek understanding on issues that are hard for you to comprehend and maybe another member of your support group can help.            

         The benefits of this project is that it will keep you on your feet and alive with the drive for success. When another person tells you that YOU CAN do something it helps fight the many negatives you hear in your daily life and there are many of them but this project will keep your mind focused on the positive. Where the mind continues to focus the body will follow. Keep your energy on the positive and prepare to reap the benefits.

         May your day be positive and productive, with continuous progression and may peace find you.

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Silence is Power

       

        Beware of whom you give your energy to. Some are negative on purpose just to drain your positive energy. Retain your energy by not saying a word. Save your words and breath to speak positive and greatness upon this world. Speak blessings into your life and watch them come to pass. You will be faced with trials and tribulations throughout life and must learn to defeat them. There will be things that you hear that you do not agree with and may want to speak your opinion but sometimes its just not worth it. Save that energy and breath for something positive and constructive. Save your words for positive speaking and try your hardest to never use them for negative talk. What you speak about will be what you think about and what you think about will be what comes to pass, so always keep it positive.

         There is power in silence and with practice you will learn that this is true. I challenge you to practice remaining silent to the toxic people and giving them the silent treatment when they try to infect you with their poisonous words and negativity. This exercise will seem to hurt at first because you will want to say something really bad but you must remain strong and focus on keeping your mind peaceful. The next time you are in a situation where the conversation is getting sour, politely tell the other people you have to be on your way and leave the scene with not another word said. Remember, save that energy and let it motivate you to do better.

         May your day be positive and productive, with continuous progression and may peace find you. 

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Do what you can with what you have.

      

         People will doubt you and hope you fail. They will see you down and in need of help and will abandon you. Success is a lonely road, but that's no reason to quit. Never quit on your dreams and goals. Make a step towards your goals each and every day. Don't be bothered with those who wanna see you fail keep pushing for your greatness. Keep your eyes on the reward at the end of the road and remember when you reach that end it still is not the end but only an opportunity for a new beginning. You may not have much at the moment but that doesn't mean you can do much. You are a powerful being and very capable of doing great things in this world. You have the power to change this whole world, yes just you. It only takes one person to change the world. 
         You feel trapped in your current situations and struggles? That feeling too can be used to light a fire within to seek your greatness. Use every thing you have, any tools available and fight your way to success. You have to do what you can with what you have and once you gain more tools, more knowledge and understanding add to what you have and become even greater. You have to go at your problems and struggles 

like a giant. Any obstacle you face, look at yourself as a giant and step right over it. Giving up should never be an option.

         Take a deep look within and visualize where you want to be and focus on it daily. Quit dwelling on where you are now, its not gonna get you nowhere. Focus on the end result and it will find you quickly. 

         May your day be positive and productive, with continuous progression and may peace find you. 

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No One's Opinion is your Reality.

         Reality is what you make of it and opinions only matter if you allow it. We live in a society where so many people try to dictate other's lives and shape them to their standards. If someone has a problem with your way of life, that is not your problem, it is theirs. I understand that some people are offensive and mean and that is a no go for self construction, so at the same time be aware of your actions being offensive,  but never compromise your joy and peace because someone that's miserable wants you on their level. Your reality should be great and positive.
         People are calling you fat, skinny, bald, hairy, ugly, etc.? SO!!!  Don't worry about what THEY say, you are you and as long as you feel good about yourself that's all that matters. Learn to block out all of the things people say and if needed cut them out of your life. Who needs toxic people in their life? No one! Think positive thoughts and remain in your inner peace. May your day be positive and productive, with continuous progression and may peace find you.

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